For the anon; OkCupid is a great resource for finding casual hookups. I find Craigslist to be a little sketchy but I've been contacted to be a 3rd by numerous couples on OkCupid and they always felt respectful and safe. Upload some pictures of the two of you, fill out the profile in full, and send messages to any cute, open-minded girls you find. You'll be surprised how many there are!